What is so great about mom/grandma?

One never know wat is so great about mom/ grandma that we as their children have to feel thankful about their contribution? What have out mom/grandma contribute in our life?

Here...this is wat....The thing is that even I type wat I notice about the home makers' contribution, u ppl will still think that it's nothing to be proud of, or that all the things they have done are very very "easy job. However...if u personally have experienced the whole process of being a so called "housewife", u will surely appreciate everything our mom/grandma have done for us all this while.

Here's wat I experienced:-
1. u ppl will think that it's easy to just put clothes into the washing machine and let it do all the work. But then, wat happens next?? don't we have to hang all the clothes up to dry them? wat next?? the clothes have to be kept after they have been fully dried and to be folded neatly and to be placed into the cupboard.
Duration of the whole process:- about 2 hours
2. To shop/to do marketing, that is to buy things to cook for the whole family to eat. They have to comsider who do not eat wat / who like to eat wat / the frequency of the dishes being ate,to prevent the ppl who eat those stuff not to get bored.
Duration:- about 1 hour
3. To prepare stuff, defrost the meat that wanted to be cooked later, chop/clean the meat, cut vegetables+wash them, at the same time, to think of what dish to cook and to prepare a "menu of the day" in mind. Sometimes, so materials to be cooked have some "pre" cooking prepare steps. For example, to make meat ball, the meat have to be chopped by hand(why not by machine/chopper?becoz using hand to chop makes the meat taste better), or that some vege have to be soaked in water to make it soft before it can be cooked(e.g. mushrooms)...all this pre cooking prepare have to be done and to be kept in mind, otherwise, the meals cannot be prepared in time.
Duration:- about 2 hours
4. To make the best judgement of when the family members will be back for meals, and to make the dishes just in time on dining table.
5. To cook the dishes...It's not easy u know, if things does not turn out to be the taste u thought it should be, ppl might complain bout it. The taste have to be just nice, not too salty or too spicy. However, if it is tasteless, ppl will also complain bout the dishes made.
Duration:- about 1 1/2 hours.
6. To clear up all the plates,wok,cutleries and all the cooking utesiles after meals and after cooking.
Duration:- about 1/2 hours.

So, lets consider the housewife only do these things, without consider that she have to sweep the floor/clean the house. Each day, if she have to cook 3 meals, and to wash 1 load of washing machine, and have a rest/sleep at night of about 7hours, she only have 3 hours left to rest her legs, hands and her whole body.

Ok....so....i say that mom and grandma are great. However, there is cons from this. If, u have a great mom/grandma who works and do all those stuff at home for u, u will never learn how to cook, to wash clothes or to clean up ur room.
So, whenever ppl ask me why I know how to cook, or ask me to teach them how to cook...I say I can't becoz it's some knowledge that I have accumulate since I am small....why??becoz I have a lazy mom, that I have to help do this and that since small, and I am very greatful that I have such a mom becoz I can learn a lot from life rather than doing nothing/ knowing nothing bout house whole chores:D

Thanks mom:D

tears of anger/fear?

Sometimes when somebody tells us something bout us, our personality from the bottom of their heart, we get pissed off easily and sometimes hates that person....

It's not that the person say something bad bout us, or that he/she is telling something that is not true about us/sort of like accuse us.....BUT the thing is that he/she has hit hard on the point, talking and telling us things that we wanted to hide from others to know, or maybe it's something that we ourselves are lying to ourselves.

For example, if u have tell a lie to A, and then A gets into trouble...then B stands up and say that it's all ur lie that make A did that, and it's all ur fault. However, u still want to protect urself and say u did not did it, tears will start to accumulate in ur eyes. It's not anger that lead tears there, but fear~ fear of letting ur true self out.

The above example is something very light and I think most ppl have gone thru this situation(erm....maybe when u were small)....
Situations that are huge, is something that involves things like our personality, the so called "mask" that we have to wear everyday in order to survive well in the society.

Be tough my frens....Be yourself!!so that u will never got "exposed" by some1 someday....But this is really hard....very very hard as if u do so, u nv live in a great life...ppl will stab ur back

Conclusion:Life's nv so easy~~

忘记~

每次每次，当我们伤心，心疼，无奈，辛苦。。。。等些消极的想法时，我们都会有着“如果我什么都不记得了，哪有多好”的念头。但是，刚刚，我在想，不管我现在的生活有多痛苦，多悲哀。。。但是，我的生活，也有着快乐，幸福的时候。

所以，人生嘛~难免或有悲欢离合，有积极和消极。。。在“道”里。。。人生，生活，世界，本来就是充满了“+” 和“-” 的互动，人生才会精彩！！

我。。。不想忘记我的人生的每个时刻。。。你呢？

金钱论

《一寸光阴，一寸金；寸金难买寸光阴》

谁说光阴，时间，是不能用金钱买？是谁说不是每个东西都能用钱买？
有了金钱，很多事情都是可以用金钱买回来。。。包括感情和时间！！

感情--〉在一段男女之间的感情里，有些女生会为了那男生给他的一个钻戒而心动；为了那简简单单的一束玫瑰而接受那男生的追求。有些男生（特别是当天生的小白脸遇上了千金小姐），会为了金钱，而很想要得到那女生的欢心。。。

时间--〉当有了金钱，时间是可以省下来，就看你如何去运用那所省下来的时间。e.g. : 选择乘搭飞机/快速飞机到达目的地，比乘搭巴士/汽车来得快，又方便。为题就在于金钱上。

金钱，可以说是万能的，但是，也有金钱无助的时候。。。
当你心爱的人离你远去时；当你心疼又绝望时；当一个运动员失去得到冠军的宝座；当你能看到你心爱的人幸福；自己的梦想；自己的未来；一个人的快乐。。。。

对于我，金钱虽然很重要，但是不至于重要到那种。。。可以放弃我的梦想；放弃过我生活的每分每秒；放弃我的青春；放弃我现有的人生；放弃我所爱的人。。。
既然我一向都有着那享受我每个时刻的人生，做我这个年龄的人所该做的事，ENJOY还是我人生的 moto!!