English

English is not everything!

At one time, I have the thought that think that English is a language that carries status, class and standard~ and that without English speaking/writing, means no standard or low quality.

Now that I understand, and learn more about more societal levels, to have the grasp of English is an advantage, BUT, it's just not everything (unless, that is the ONLY language u communicate with ppl).

English, in lower societal level seems to be something great, highly recognized, and respectable~ but in higher societal level, ppl that are fluent or that have some standard of English education seems to forget the presence of the lower level, and that those ppl with "English" think that those ppl without "English" MUST have English in their life.

It's just not true~
We have to greatful about wat we know, ALSO, at the same time, the "disadvantage" of other ppl should be taken into consideration, don't think only for urself, but for others !

ENGLISH IS JUST NOT EVERYTHING!

Remember who u are!
Remember where is ur root!
Be greatful!

问题

问题一：本是同根生，相煎何太急？
只要是对的，又何必争你我？
谁对谁错？
又何谓对？
对错在于方向！而不是执著，或跟随！

问题二：少数服从多数？
多就代表普通？
少就是奇怪？
有时，情况并不那么简单！
有时~人总需要静下来想想~
没有人会是世界的中心！

Dream

Dream~
A name that keeps life meaningful~
A noun that keeps one motivated~

A dream that is easily achievable is nothing that gives satisfaction~
A dream that is nothing but a dream gives life ended nowhere~
A dream that is non-achievable gives one nothing but worries and stress~

Limit, Threshold and Daring are the three components that needs to be grasp to realise a dream~

Do u have a dream?
Do u dare to dream?
How close are u to ur dream?

无所谓

高兴的~我无牵无挂~
高兴的~我什么都没有~
高兴的~我无所谓~我真的什么都无所谓~

小孩成长的过程经过一连串的教育
所谓的教育，不一定需要考到第一名~
所谓的教育，是要建立一个人的人格，创造一个“人”~
这就是所谓的 input!

从教育之中~
很重要的一点就是：Socialisation
Socialisation 的意义在于：教导人与人沟通的规则
这规则就像。。。有红绿灯。。。
让人知道红灯时停，绿灯时走~
教导人会看什么是人生路程的红灯~什么时候是绿灯~
虽然红绿两者很简单~但， 有人就是想偏掉。。。
我把它比喻成闯红灯。。。
闯红灯~很有快感~很舒服~
但，它致命！或让你死不去（这才恐怖！！）

社会~
它有它的Rules and regulation~
但~不要忘记~
附加的条件还有Terms and Conditions apply~

人~就是有欲望~
比如：我要的东西很多~
但，我不能任性的说要就要~
我不能不则手段去要~ 也不能逃避~
想办法去得到，从 terms and condition 下手~
律师所谓的： law也是会有漏洞的~

人生~就是这样~
它是一个考验~
它是一个相似Survivor的游戏~

To Live or To Die~

我真的真的无所谓~
因为~我要大家都快乐！！

家教

一个人的家教很重要
不管你身上穿的，拿的，吃的是否是名牌~
或不管你身份高或低~
不管你贫穷，富贵~
如果没有家教，
对我来说，你的一切一切都属零！！

好比说：
你把你女儿送去学芭蕾舞
两年后，她学成，
拿到全国第一~
但， 她总是对你不理不睬
对你一点基本的尊重都没有
礼貌，对她来说，完完全全是个陌生的词汇~
那~~她那第一，有鬼用？？

又好比：
有个人身份，地位贫贱~
但，他懂事理，
有礼貌，有家教。。。
那~这人是否比例子一的那个她值得我们尊敬？？

总之~
家教，教养，品德~
还有，个人的人格比任何物质上的东东来的重要！！

工作 vs. 做工

已经工作超过一个星期~
但，在我脑海里的我从来没有当工作/做工 as a 必要 or a 需要
工作/做工对我来说是一个。。。怎么说。。。
是个人生的一个过程
是个经验累积的程序
是个学习的旅程
是个精神上的训练。。。

刚好，今天，薪水的一天~
可能使我不当工作是为了赚钱
或，可能我从不当我所付出的所有需要回报
或，可能我做事只要有人肯定，对我来说就是最好的回报
当我看到我的 payment slip~
我很惊讶~
为什么会得到如此多钱~
我到底做了什么？
高兴的~回家告诉我老哥我赚的钱好多哦~
他看了看我的 slip,说：
虾咪！你每天做工就这么少钱？
我说： 就是这样啊~ 我的工作就只能赚到这么多~但，我很满足^.^

Expectation~
当一个人从没有对任何所付出的要任何物质上的回报~
满足感会让你活得很高兴，很幸福！！

忽然觉得我很酷
做人很潇洒~
或许
许多人或许会问我：
你就赚那 <鸡水甘多>，你可又想过你的未来？
你够花吗？
储蓄呢？
嗯~~我的回答？
人常会在书写上说~<<活在当下>>！
所以？就酱^.^

Post-Industrial Society

Living in the post-industrial society, information is wat ppl sell, buy and need. The importance of information can be observed even at home, where all family members have their eyes locked to the computer screen, hands on keyboard, and sharing of information thru mouth, without looking up from the screen ^.^

The flow of new information is so great that no1 can actually know everything and is "smart" enough that they know everything, coz even if u know something at time A, at time A+ 1 second, information found might be equivalent to rubbish/nonsense, coz its outdated already. Hence, we humans have to be humble in learning/listening, eager to learn and absorb new information and not to be greedy to want to know a lot of things, otherwise, wat u get is just not applicable as well.

What info this post suppose to send over is~ mom, even internet is very interesting, rest ur eyes~ don see silly silly stuff, ok? ^.^

应该

在这世上，没有谁或什么是“应该”的~
举例：
有人说：在读书是启用父母的钱是应该的
或：某事情应该是行走A线，B线是不可以的
或：男朋友应该位女朋友做某某东西
或：男女有别， 某男/女为另一个性别做某事是应该的
No....No.....
世上是没有如此这般的应该！
如果，“应该”在我们的生活当中占很重要的位置
那~是不是该是时候反省？
反省啥？
为什么某某应该跟着你想象的路线走？
为什么别人就应该做某某？而你~又做了什么？

应该？
世界上就是没有应该
只有人类的自私，傲慢与自我中心！！

The truth and nothing but the truth

Lately, the trend that is spreading all over on everything named on earth is "the truth". Everything named on earth includes, entertainment industry, politics, relationship with people, technology.....erm....almost everything~

Of coz, lies are still said and done, and those lies are lies that we know that its a lie by itself, and we know that it is "for our good" and "their own good". Some are acceptable, but some are just sickening.

With the fast evolving technology and network, making human connection so far, but yet so near, how long do u think a lie and remain undetected, unseen, unheard and unknown? Words and doings are all over the net just minutes after an action is taken. There is a saying: "The spread of words is worse than the spread of disease", and now, we have everything on our finger tips, so, anything one say, is a "pandemic", spreading around the globe.

Erm....as I say~ its a trend now, that the truth is wat ppl wants to see and hear. Lies are just disgusting in this trend (erm...that's wat I think la~).

HOWEVER, how much truth can one bear?

p/s: pls help me out with my 1st poll^.^

We and "We" as one

Lets begin with a note: let we as plural, and "we" as singular.

Ok~
I heard a song played on tv just now....its about being one/to be one/living as one~ and i was a bit curious~ erm....if we are one, then....are we different or we are the same?

We are individuals that are unique in some sense, coz....erm....we are born having a brain with different "inputs", but "we" are one becoz we are living in the same sociological, geographical, historical...background.
The curiosity is~y are we always being encouraged by slogans, songs, and brain input that we have to become "we", BUT, when "time" comes, "we" are always being told that "we" are actually we?? (a bit complicated huh?? That's my main idea^.^)

Being educated, have brain of our own, having thought to have our own analytical and brain power, we always thought that we are as in "we", until "we" are told that "we" are actually we. So~ the point here is --> do u actually want us to be we or "we"??

"We" are one, and one have the power to do anything!!

Love from parents

Dear mom and dad~

I know you guys care for my safety and my well-being so much that you try to think on behalf of me. For example, analyse situations, or predict future, or see things I do in your eyes, and then tell me y I shouldn't do such things. That is good, I love that~ coz no other people other than the closest family members will tell you straight to you face that u are stupid to do such things.

However~~ all things said by any1 on earth are advice, and the final decision lies on my hand. So, from wat I hear and get from all of u, I will have to analyse them wisely, put some into action if I am wrong, and put some into the drawer of "advice" in cases I think I am right~ After all, I know my life better than all of you, coz, I know and understand where about I am standing, who are the frens I get together with, wat I do and why I do that. There are always reasons for something to happen, and something I do.

Don't worry too much~ I understand, and I do analyse things with my brain~ BUT, of coz, advice, love and care are never too much~ so~ keep sending me advice with statements, PLUS explainations^.^

Love,
Your cute daughter^.^

Target of life

If~ there is no such system as point or percentage in life, what will be your target in life?

For example, if there is no such thing as a 100% or 10 marks for the test or exam u are taking, wat is the target that u aim for, so as for u to be grateful, and happy about it?
OR
If there is nothing as in how many percent u will get in something u do in your work, wat is the target that you aim for so as to make u strive?
OR
Imagine there is never been an invention of numbers, or alphabet, or even currency, wat is the target that you might aim for in your life, "living", not "surviving"? (living means, u live your life to the max; while surviving means, just pure living with air, food and the necessities)

My target?
Just one word, "song"(in hokkien/canton), "syok" (in malaysian term) ^.^
Well, its just all about pleasure and enjoying myself in things I do^.^

七分

人常说~吃饭时，吃七分饱就好了，既健康，不伤胃，又不会爱睡。。。嘻嘻~后面是我自己加的 :p

我把这道理融入了做人的道理~ 做人,做到七分就OK了 ^.^
然而, 我懂~ 你们都会说: 既然有本事做到一百分, 为什么要停留在七十分? 能做第一~为什么要当第二? 为什么做人不要拼完, 半途而废? 为什么要少人一截?
Ok~ 其实,道理很简单~ 当第一不是最好的~ 他只是名好, 地位好~ 但~人生短短几十年, 那么辛苦, 那么拼~ 然后错过了很多美好的风景~ 那....我宁可不那么辛苦, 不得到最好的, 不做第一....

七分的人生其实很简单~ 就是~ 普通~ 不是最好, 但还享有差不多的优惠人生~ 努力, 但不拼~ 简单, 但不单调~ 简称: 笑看人生~

在我这年龄层会想这些....嗯.....好像不是很对的时机.....但~我就是这样^.^

Mirror

Humans~ they are nv satisfied in wat they have, and they always see that other ppl around them have better things than them~

As said~ everyone have their own story behind they appearance~ I have my own story behind mine also~ We will see, y ppl around me can live their life so peacefully, like all happiness drop on their head instead on mine? We see, y ppl can have all luxury in life, but mine sucks? We see, y some ppl are just talented, plus, they have the prettiest faces than ours? WHY???

There is a saying by my auntie:"don complain bout the ugly shoe u have, wait till u see ppl without leg" (erm...something like that...I forgot wat she said d :p pai sei)

My qoutation of the day: When humans meet other humans, they will see wat is good in them~ when humans see themselves in the mirror, they only see all those negative self. So~ wat do u do? buy a new mirror!!! Then, start off with the new mirror by seeing all the good sides of urself ^.^

I know~ its very hard to do that~
but~ life is all about a process and a journey of learning that never ends ^.^ peace V

p/s: 本故事纯属虚构， 如有类同，敬请多多包含^.^

Imagine

Imagine~
In a cool night, at 27-29 degrees celcius~ with breeze carrying aroma of leaves, trees and flowers~

Imagine yourself having a stroll in a garden, filled with greens of nature~

Imagine, walking in the garden, outlook the beautiful building with lights in the night~

Just.....imagine having a walk in such a beautiful night in the garden^.^
wat a waste, that I can't go out so late at night on my own~ enjoy the beauty of nature~

y is it that night everything become beautiful~ that air became fresh, and a simple thing as a walk in the garden became something so great? coz~ its so hot in the day, that everything under the heat of sun become ugly. :p

Maybe nobody understands my imagination well enough~ coz~ i know, my english sucks...but in summary~ it will be sooooo nice to have all those things, garden, lightings, and a small walk ^.^

Who's fault?

Here's a very abstract post^.^

These days, or I should say, months, I was very fed up with news, and happenings around~ anything and everything doesn't really bothers me, and it doesn't really concerns me, even though I stay in this particular place at this particular time, wat happens in this area doesn't really involves me~ as long as I can get my things done, and do wat I need to do on time, on place.

Many might be on the same boat with me, blur about wat happened UNTIL, there is these ppl, "protecting our safety" and in the name of "security" come into action, then~ I come to know wat happens, and I am quite heart broken, or should say~ lost heart in "everything" and "everyone" which involves in that "P" thingy.

Y want to make things look complicated and serious, also~ to make everyone's life miserable?
I still remember, after wat happened in March 8, I came back to KL, taking a taxi driven by a Malay~ I asked him: Encik, ada kecoh kat sini tak? He replied: buat apa kecoh? kata betul~ kalau buat kecoh, bukan kamu orang susah, semua pun susah.

Well~ as ppl, we won't do things that break our advantage. So~ who are the ones that "protect benefits of the ppl"? Its we, as the citizen and the ppl~ y? and wat is the use of the "G" thingy's existance? Well, everyone have a part to play....

Seriously, did the "A" thingy made a fuss? or the "tut" "tut" the "tut"?

p/s: I am still young and pretty *vomit*, so~ there are a lot of censorship here :p

Time Machine

There are 3 days in our life: yesterday, today and tomorrow~
It is said that yesterday is the past, tomorrow is future, and today is a gift, that's y it is called "present". But is some's eyes: yesterday is a lesson, today is how we apply we learned, and tomorrow is wat we are striving for.
To me, there is only 1 day in my life: u cannot change yesterday and u cannot predict if tomorrow still exist, so~ there left only Today! well, in some sense, there are still 3 days, but the other 2 are only virtually exist.

p/s: sorry~ once u gave me idea to write something, or to talk on a topic, I can't stop half way, even u tried to stop me~ so....here goes all thoughts in my brain~ sorry, "u know who"^.^

Here goes:
Things are like that, past are very hard to be forgotten just like that, because it already happen, and it is part of our history, and is imprinted in the book of our life. So, the main point is, wat have u learn? or just just use ur ego and "blindness" to cover it up, and pretended it never happened b4?
I pretended b4~ and its just even harder to make things work for life and stress just pour in like fountain. So, wat I did is to open up, become invisible, till even ppl that just know me for few weeks can tell that, my past still haunt me~ So wat? life still goes on, earth still turns and circulate around the sun. To go back to the past is impossible~ wat we have is yet to come.

As I always say, life is a miracle~
Well, and that now, my life is full of fun^.^ Every experience counts~ even a small insect has something to tell us, e.g. one day, as I was having a meal with my fren, there is this fly beside my plate~ i observe it a while, then I told my fren: wow~ the fly is cute, it just brushed its head like doing a dance, and my fren goes "swt" =.='''~

And to "ur" experience~
Luckily u are ok~ it really shocked me when u told me that......well~ sorry that I am not that kind that knows how to express how I feels, my sympathy, or my concern quite well~ that's not my thingy. But I am really glad that everything is OK~

As said, everything happens for some reasons^.^and from 1 situation that happens on 1 person, it actually taught that person a lesson, and for the listener, I also learn something from there^.^

Regards~ and best wishes for all my frens out there^.^

Sleepless nights~

I've been having 2 consecutive nights without deep sleep, with all sorts of nonsense dreams~ erm~ and y am I still awake after that 2 nights? coz, I have had 3 cups of tea today, and the caffeine is driving me crazy.
I have had tremors, feels hot the whole day, and my neurons are non-stop firing!!

Some thoughts have been running in my brain lately~
I kept saying ppl don't have a specific stand point, and they don't know wat they are doing or wat they want~ However, I am sort of that type myself also :p I'm so Sorry ^.^
Y? because I love doing a lot of things, and everything interest me....from astrology to mechanics to medicine to finance~ and I kept changing minds on wat I will pursue in my future~ and the choices seems to be infinite....
Well~ I know I dream a lot~ seeing things in its most perfect way...but in actual fact, I am just nothing, not standing on both extremes, not the best, nor the worse. Erm....seems good rite? standing in btw? NO!! coz I am going no where and I am not good in doing things of the both extremes, and my stands and thoughts keep on changing, going no where in the end.

In my eyes, I see other ppl's potential~ I admire them, and I wanted to learn things they are good at from them, but sometimes, I became jealous of their talent and suddenly felt deppressed. Its like~ y are ppl "gived" talents and I am like, good in nothing~

Hehe~ I know y~ Coz I am Miss "so so" (差不多小姐）^.^

Ok~ enough of nonsense~ back to work^.^
Nite Nite!!

Empire

I have this feeling of my "empire" in KL is building up, and if I go back to Penang, its kind of~ i will become lonely and feel empty. Maybe~ its just becoz now, I have frens all over me, and the number of relatives in KL suddenly grow~

Of coz, I still love Penang~ its my home and my super cute family is there, but then, if I am now in Penang, I really can't think of things that I will be doing~ I will be lying around, lepak"ing" and do all nuisance.
Well, I know~ I've changed a lot~ last time, not to be in Penang is super uncomfortable, and I will miss my bed at home from time to time~ Maybe, I am so used to life here that I can't imagine how, and where to go in Penang.

Don be mad at me~
coz, its something good that I am not independent and I can live on my own instead of hanging on my parent's neck.

Well.....we'll see how things go along~
I suddenly things and feels, being alone, going anywhere I want, meeting frens and family some where, some time~ this is more free...
We'll just have to see how time change me again^.^

To compare

Read my previous blog posted minutes ago? nvm~ I just edited it~ I shouldn't use that example. Donno wat I am talking about, just ignore everything u see in this paragraph :p

Ok~ we love to compare things around us~ me and u, u and them, this and that~ everything exist are compared, and if one compares, there will be better and not as good. Y don't we just stop comparing and appreciate the beauty of the uniqueness of creation of god? Even fingers have different length~ so wat do u expect? to cut every fingers and live only the middle fingers on both hands?

The thing here is~ everyone, everything is incomparable. Its just one knows or sees the unique and the essence of that particular thing~ if u just can't see that, can't appreciate that, fine, just say in ur opinion, and in ur point of view, its just not ur thingy, and not to "kill"/ end the road of that particular thingy and say, its not good.

Things are just incomparable~ so~ stop comparing and start living with love and heart of appreciation for beauty around us^.^