When we meet the right person to love when we'reat the right place at the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that'snot a choice. That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot ofcouples who get together because of this) is not achoice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards.
Whenwill you take that infatuation, that crush, thatmind-blowing attraction to the next level?That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down andcontemplate whether you want to make this into aconcrete relationship or just a fling.
If youbdecide to love a person, even with his faults, that'snot a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matterwhat, that's choice.
Even if you know there aremany people out there who are more attractive,smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that'schoice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe isso true about this: " Fate brings you together,butit's still up to you to make it happen."I do believe that soul mates do exist.
That thereistruly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.
We may meet our soul mates bychance, but loving and staying with our soul matesis still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someoneperfect to love...BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly............
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